{"id":7443,"date":"2021-07-08T15:21:55","date_gmt":"2021-07-08T14:21:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/studyinireland.ie\/?p=7443"},"modified":"2021-07-08T15:22:50","modified_gmt":"2021-07-08T14:22:50","slug":"mandagus-nesutikimas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/studyinireland.ie\/lt\/polite-disagreement\/","title":{"rendered":"Mandagus nesutikimas"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wpb-content-wrapper\" id=\"wpb-content-root\"><div class=\"vc_row wpb_row vc_row-fluid\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container vc_col-sm-12\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\">\n\t<div class=\"wpb_text_column wpb_content_element\" >\n\t\t<div class=\"wpb_wrapper\">\n\t\t\t<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Visi turime teis\u0119 nesutikti, bet pabandykime tai daryti mandagiai! Mandagus nesutarimas yra civilizuotas b\u016bdas.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<figure id=\"attachment_7593\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-7593\" style=\"width: 1918px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-7593 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/studyinireland.ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/Polite-Disagreement.jpg\" alt=\"Mandagus nesutarimas, ISI, angl\u0173 kalba, pokalbis\" width=\"1918\" height=\"1280\" srcset=\"https:\/\/studyinireland.ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/Polite-Disagreement.jpg 1918w, https:\/\/studyinireland.ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/Polite-Disagreement-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/studyinireland.ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/Polite-Disagreement-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/studyinireland.ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/Polite-Disagreement-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/studyinireland.ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/Polite-Disagreement-391x260.jpg 391w, https:\/\/studyinireland.ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/Polite-Disagreement-1536x1025.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1918px) 100vw, 1918px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-7593\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Ne itin mandagaus nesutarimo atvejis<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: justify;\">Mandagaus nesutikimo menas<\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Kiekvienas turi savo nuomon\u0119, ir teisingai - kaip sak\u0117 Oskaras Vaildas,<em>Kai \u017emon\u0117s su manimi sutinka, visada jau\u010diu, kad turiu klysti.<\/em>'. Ir i\u0161 ties\u0173, jei visi nuolat sutart\u0173 tarpusavyje, tai b\u016bt\u0173 \u017eenklas, kad arba visi esame mir\u0119 nuo kaklo iki kaklo, arba gyvename totalitariniame re\u017eime. Ta\u010diau i\u0161reik\u0161ti nesutikim\u0105 gali b\u016bti ma\u017eas menas.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Skirtingose kult\u016brose nesutarimai per pokalb\u012f i\u0161rei\u0161kiami skirtingai - vieni gali b\u016bti tiesmuki\u0161kesni ar grie\u017etesni nei kiti. Tai, kas vienoje kalboje atrodyt\u0173 kaip nekenksmingas nuomoni\u0173 skirtumas, kitoje kalboje gali pasirodyti kaip nemandagus sutrikdymas, o kitatau\u010diui, u\u017eaugusiam pagal kitokias tradicijas, tai gali pasirodyti pernelyg tiesmuka ir beveik \u012f\u017eeid\u017eianti.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Airi\u0173 kult\u016broje u\u017eaug\u0119 \u017emon\u0117s kartais vengia reik\u0161ti savo nuomon\u0119 - yra \u012fvairi\u0173 b\u016bd\u0173, kaip su\u0161velninti sm\u016bg\u012f ir pasaldinti nesutarim\u0173 piliul\u0119. Galima nesutikti su tuo, k\u0105 kas nors sako, ir nesakyti to pernelyg staigiai ar grubiai. Toliau pateikiamos kelios formuluot\u0117s, kurios gali b\u016bti priimtinesn\u0117s nei tiesiog \u0161aukti: \"Tu visi\u0161kai neteisus, a\u0161 nesutinku!\" arba \"Tu idiotas, kad neturi mano nuomon\u0117s!\", arba pana\u0161\u016bs \u017eod\u017eiai.<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: justify;\">Mandagaus nesutikimo i\u0161rei\u0161kimo b\u016bdai<\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Ar tikrai taip manote?<\/strong> - Tai rodo, kad domimasi kito asmens nuomone, ta\u010diau kartu leid\u017eia suprasti, kad ji gali nustebinti.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Tai tiesiog netiesa.<\/strong> - Taip takti\u0161kai gin\u010dijamas teiginio pagr\u012fstumas ar teisingumas, nepuolant asmens.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Ne\u017einau.<\/strong> - \u017dmogus prisipa\u017e\u012fsta savo nei\u0161manym\u0105, o kartu pas\u0117ja abejoni\u0173 s\u0117kl\u0105.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Nesu d\u0117l to tikras..<\/strong>. - V\u0117lgi \u017emogus pabr\u0117\u017eia savo ne\u017einojim\u0105 ir palieka klausim\u0105 neai\u0161k\u0173.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Galb\u016bt esate teisus, bet...<\/strong> - V\u0117lgi paliekama galimyb\u0117 abejoti, o \u017eodis \"bet\" atveria duris kitam po\u017ei\u016briui.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>J\u016bs negalite tuo patik\u0117ti.<\/strong> - I\u0161rei\u0161kiamas nepasitik\u0117jimas asmens \u012fsitikinimais, ta\u010diau nepradedama aktyviai pulti.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>\u017dinau, k\u0105 turite omenyje, bet, kita vertus...<\/strong> - Tai rei\u0161kia, kad pripa\u017e\u012fstama, jog kitas asmuo turi pagr\u012fst\u0173 argument\u0173, ta\u010diau yra ir kita klausimo pus\u0117, \u012f kuri\u0105 jis gal\u0117t\u0173 atsi\u017evelgti.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Jokiu b\u016bdu!<\/strong> - Dar vienas b\u016bdas i\u0161reik\u0161ti nepasitik\u0117jim\u0105 teiginiu \u0161iek tiek komi\u0161kai, i\u0161laikant lengv\u0105 ton\u0105.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Bijau, kad klystate.<\/strong> - Vienas i\u0161 j\u0173 - mandagiai nurodyti, kur kitas asmuo klysta - tai darote su tam tikru nenoru, kaip rodo \u017eod\u017ei\u0173 junginys \"Bijau, kad...\".<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Naudodami \u0161iuos ir kitus posakius galite mandagiai i\u0161reik\u0161ti savo nuomon\u0119 ir ne\u012f\u017eeisti kit\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173. Mandagus nesutikimas tam tikra prasme yra gero ir civilizuoto pokalbio esm\u0117. Taigi kit\u0105 kart\u0105, kai diskutuosite, pasitelkite pirmiau min\u0117tas frazes! O dabar kalb\u0117kite!<\/p>\n\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Visi turime teis\u0119 nesutikti, bet pabandykime tai daryti mandagiai! Mandagus nesutarimas yra civilizuotas b\u016bdas. Nelabai mandagaus nesutarimo pavyzdys Menas mandagiai nesutikti ...","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":7593,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_titles_title":"ISI Dublin - English Language School - Polite Disagreement","_seopress_titles_desc":"We&#039;re all entitled to disagree, but let&#039;s try and do so politely! 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