{"id":7443,"date":"2021-07-08T15:21:55","date_gmt":"2021-07-08T14:21:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/studyinireland.ie\/?p=7443"},"modified":"2021-07-08T15:22:50","modified_gmt":"2021-07-08T14:22:50","slug":"pieklajigas-domstarpibas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/studyinireland.ie\/lv\/polite-disagreement\/","title":{"rendered":"Piekl\u0101j\u012bgas domstarp\u012bbas"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Mums visiem ir ties\u012bbas nepiekrist, bet m\u0113\u0123in\u0101sim to dar\u012bt piekl\u0101j\u012bgi! Piekl\u0101j\u012bgas domstarp\u012bbas ir civiliz\u0113ts veids, k\u0101 r\u012bkoties.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

\"Piekl\u0101j\u012bgas
Ne tik piekl\u0101j\u012bgas nesaska\u0146as gad\u012bjums<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

M\u0101ksla piekl\u0101j\u012bgi nepiekrist<\/h2>\n

Katram ir savs viedoklis, un tas ir pamatoti - k\u0101 Oskars Vailds teica:Ikreiz, kad cilv\u0113ki man piekr\u012bt, es vienm\u0113r j\u016btu, ka man ir j\u0101b\u016bt nepareizi.<\/em>'. Un patie\u0161\u0101m, ja visi viens otram visu laiku piekristu, t\u0101 b\u016btu z\u012bme, ka vai nu m\u0113s visi esam miru\u0161i no kakla uz aug\u0161u, vai dz\u012bvojam totalit\u0101r\u0101 re\u017e\u012bm\u0101. Bet izteikt domstarp\u012bbas var b\u016bt maza m\u0101ksla pati par sevi.<\/p>\n

Da\u017e\u0101d\u0101s kult\u016br\u0101s ir at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bgi veidi, k\u0101 sarun\u0101 paust domstarp\u012bbas, - da\u017e\u0101s kult\u016br\u0101s t\u0101s var b\u016bt tie\u0161\u0101kas vai as\u0101kas nek\u0101 cit\u0101s. Tas, kas vien\u0101 valod\u0101 var\u0113tu \u0161\u0137ist nekait\u012bga viedok\u013cu at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bba, cit\u0101 valod\u0101 var \u0161\u0137ist rupj\u0161 trauc\u0113jums, kas cit\u0101d\u0101 trad\u012bcij\u0101 audzin\u0101tam cilv\u0113kam var \u0161\u0137ist p\u0101r\u0101k tie\u0161s un gandr\u012bz aizvainojo\u0161s.<\/p>\n

\u012aru kult\u016br\u0101 audzin\u0101ti cilv\u0113ki da\u017ek\u0101rt var izvair\u012bgi paust savu viedokli - ir da\u017e\u0101di veidi, k\u0101 m\u012bkstin\u0101t triecienu un saldin\u0101t domstarp\u012bbu tableti. Var nepiekrist tam, ko k\u0101ds saka, bet neb\u016bt p\u0101r\u0101k skarbiem vai rupjiem. Turpm\u0101k ir sniegti da\u017ei formul\u0113jumi, kas var b\u016bt lab\u0101ki par vienk\u0101r\u0161u klieg\u0161anu: \"Tu piln\u012bgi k\u013c\u016bdies, es nepiekr\u012btu!\" vai \"Tu esi idiots, ka tev nav mana viedok\u013ca!\", vai l\u012bdz\u012bgi v\u0101rdi.<\/p>\n

Piekl\u0101j\u012bgas nepiekri\u0161anas pau\u0161anas veidi<\/h3>\n

Vai tie\u0161\u0101m j\u016bs t\u0101 dom\u0101j\u0101t?<\/strong> - Tas liecina par interesi par otras personas viedokli, vienlaikus liekot noprast, ka t\u0101 var\u0113tu b\u016bt p\u0101rsteigta.<\/p>\n

T\u0101 vienk\u0101r\u0161i nav taisn\u012bba.<\/strong> - Viens taktiski apstr\u012bd apgalvojuma pamatot\u012bbu vai patiesumu, neuzbr\u016bkot personai.<\/p>\n

Ak, es nezinu.<\/strong> - Cilv\u0113ks atz\u012bstas sav\u0101 nezin\u0101\u0161an\u0101, vienlaikus s\u0113jot \u0161aubu s\u0113klu.<\/p>\n

Par to es neesmu p\u0101rliecin\u0101ts..<\/strong>. - Atkal uzsvars tiek likts uz savu nezin\u0101\u0161anu un jaut\u0101jums paliek neskaidrs.<\/p>\n

Varb\u016bt jums ir taisn\u012bba, bet...<\/strong> - Atkal tiek atst\u0101ta iesp\u0113ja ap\u0161aub\u012bt \u0161o jaut\u0101jumu un ar \"bet\" tiek atv\u0113rtas durvis citam viedoklim.<\/p>\n

J\u016bs tam nevarat tic\u0113t.<\/strong> - Cilv\u0113ks pau\u017e netic\u012bbu par savu p\u0101rliec\u012bbu, akt\u012bvi neuzbr\u016bkot.<\/p>\n

Es zinu, ko j\u016bs dom\u0101jat, bet, no otras puses...<\/strong> - Viens atz\u012bst, ka otrai personai ir pamatots viedoklis, bet ka ir ar\u012b cita jaut\u0101juma puse, ko t\u0101 var\u0113tu apsv\u0113rt.<\/p>\n

Nek\u0101d\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101!<\/strong> - V\u0113l viens veids, k\u0101 paust netic\u012bbu k\u0101dam apgalvojumam, nedaudz komisk\u0101 veid\u0101, saglab\u0101jot vieglu toni.<\/p>\n

Baidos, ka j\u016bs k\u013c\u016bd\u0101ties.<\/strong> - Viens no tiem ir piekl\u0101j\u012bgi nor\u0101d\u012bt, kur otra persona k\u013c\u016bd\u0101s - j\u016bs to dar\u0101t ar zin\u0101mu nepatiku, par ko liecina vietniekv\u0101rds \"Es baidos...\".<\/p>\n

Lietojot \u0161os un citus izteicienus, varat piekl\u0101j\u012bgi paust iebildumus pret citu cilv\u0113ku viedokli, neaizvainojot vi\u0146us. Piekl\u0101j\u012bga nepiekri\u0161ana sav\u0101 zi\u0146\u0101 ir labas un civiliz\u0113tas sarunas b\u016bt\u012bba. T\u0101p\u0113c n\u0101kamaj\u0101 diskusij\u0101 iek\u013caujiet k\u0101du no iepriek\u0161 min\u0113taj\u0101m fr\u0101z\u0113m! Tagad run\u0101jiet t\u0101l\u0101k!<\/p>\n\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Mums visiem ir ties\u012bbas nepiekrist, bet m\u0113\u0123in\u0101sim to dar\u012bt piekl\u0101j\u012bgi! Piekl\u0101j\u012bgas domstarp\u012bbas ir civiliz\u0113ts veids, k\u0101 r\u012bkoties. Ne p\u0101r\u0101k piekl\u0101j\u012bgas domstarp\u012bbas Piekl\u0101j\u012bgas domstarp\u012bbas m\u0101ksla ...","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":7593,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_titles_title":"ISI Dublin - English Language School - Polite Disagreement","_seopress_titles_desc":"We're all entitled to disagree, but let's try and do so politely! Polite disagreement is the civilised way to go.","_seopress_robots_index":"","_seopress_robots_follow":"","_seopress_robots_imageindex":"","_seopress_robots_snippet":"","_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"none","_seopress_robots_breadcrumbs":"","_seopress_robots_freeze_modified_date":"","_seopress_robots_custom_modified_date":"","_seopress_robots_canonical":"","_seopress_social_fb_title":"","_seopress_social_fb_desc":"","_seopress_social_fb_img":"","_seopress_social_fb_img_attachment_id":0,"_seopress_social_fb_img_width":0,"_seopress_social_fb_img_height":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_title":"","_seopress_social_twitter_desc":"","_seopress_social_twitter_img":"","_seopress_social_twitter_img_attachment_id":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_img_width":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_img_height":0,"_seopress_redirections_value":"","_seopress_redirections_enabled":"","_seopress_redirections_enabled_regex":"","_seopress_redirections_logged_status":"","_seopress_redirections_param":"","_seopress_redirections_type":301,"_seopress_analysis_target_kw":"Polite disagreement,ISI,English,conversation","_seopress_news_disabled":"","_seopress_video_disabled":"","_seopress_video":[],"_seopress_pro_schemas_manual":[],"_seopress_pro_rich_snippets_disable_all":"","_seopress_pro_rich_snippets_disable":[],"_seopress_pro_schemas":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[72,194,71],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7443","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-academic","category-english-tips","category-isi-dublin-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/studyinireland.ie\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7443","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/studyinireland.ie\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/studyinireland.ie\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/studyinireland.ie\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/10"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/studyinireland.ie\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7443"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"https:\/\/studyinireland.ie\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7443\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7596,"href":"https:\/\/studyinireland.ie\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7443\/revisions\/7596"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/studyinireland.ie\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7593"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/studyinireland.ie\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7443"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/studyinireland.ie\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7443"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/studyinireland.ie\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7443"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}